Day 6: Getting to Know Myself

Moving away from familiar surroundings often helps a person get to know themselves and what they are capable of doing. As a young adult, I spent a year away from home: a month in London, two weeks in Portugal, two weeks in Utrecht, and ten months in Paris. While in those countries, I learnt self-reliance as my parents were not there to hold my hand or speak for me.

My move to Toronto helped me learn even more about myself.

I learned that I am able to adapt and live within a new environment (the city as opposed to the suburbs); as well as come to understand a new culture (to the Canadian way of doing things as opposed to the South African way). I now know that I will work at a job I do not enjoy in order to pay the rent and buy food for my children. I have come to realize that I do not easily give up – even though when my goal seems unattainable. I have come to appreciate my small-knit family who support me in my endeavours.

And I am slowly getting to know that I can do it! Patience (which I never thought I had) has shown a steely determination within my core. Moving to another country is not always easy but being flexible has allowed me to succeed in facing the challenges that have occurred.

My move to the northern hemisphere has led me on a discovery of myself that I would not want to forfeit.

photo (10)If you have missed any of my Migrating North posts, head on over here

© Colline Kook-Chun, 2014

(This post was written for the FMF 31 day challenge hosted by Kate Motaung. Today’s prompt is: know)


23 thoughts on “Day 6: Getting to Know Myself

  1. What a great idea. I never thought of getting away from familiar surroundings does cause us to get to know ourselves. I think this is what I need. Time away from the same old same old me and surroundings! Wonderful post! 😀 Have a beautiful Monday!


  2. I agree, moving into a new environment definitely pushed one to discover oneself. We have to make decisions and take the responsibilities… Great series, Colline!


  3. Absolutely agree Colline and I would add that we not only get to know and understand ourselves more deeply but it also widens our perspective on the world. I suspect there would be a lot less rabid patriotism if everybody travelled through lands and cultures different to their own. I am so enjoying these posts 🙂


    1. It helps us understand others more, doesn’t it? In addition, I think it also makes us more tolerant of other cultures and way of doing things.
      Good to know that you are enjoying the series 🙂


    1. Thank you. I believe that with every year that passes we experience things in our lives that tell us a little more about ourselves. All we need to do is take heed.


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